tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-74170322293661802492024-03-14T00:52:59.129-07:00akbasmustafa akbashttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11849599067252389372noreply@blogger.comBlogger34125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7417032229366180249.post-7140521844057698642010-05-23T13:00:00.000-07:002010-05-23T13:01:37.015-07:00<b>Degrees of Comparison</b> are used when we compare one person or one thing with another.<br /><br />There are three <span style="color:green;"> <span class="IL_AD" id="IL_AD7">Degrees</span> of <span class="IL_AD" id="IL_AD3">Comparison</span> in English.</span><br /><br />They are:<br /><br />1. <span class="IL_AD" id="IL_AD10">Positive</span> degree.<br /><br />2. <span class="IL_AD" id="IL_AD4">Comparative</span> degree.<br /><br />3. Superlative degree.<br /><br />Let us see all of them <span class="IL_AD" id="IL_AD6">one by one</span>.<br /><br /><span style="color:green;">1.Positive degree.</span><br /><br />When we speak about only one person or thing, We use the Positive degree.<br /><br /><b>Examples:</b><br /><br />• <span class="IL_AD" id="IL_AD2">This house</span> is big.<br /><br />In this sentence only one noun “The house” is talked about.<br /><br />• He is a tall student.<br /><br />• This <span class="IL_AD" id="IL_AD9">flower</span> is <span class="IL_AD" id="IL_AD5">beautiful</span>.<br /><br />• He is an intelligent boy.<br /><br />Each sentence mentioned above talks about only one noun.<br /><br /> <p>The second one in the Degrees of Comparison is...<br /><br /> </p><p><span style="color:green;">2.Comparative degree.</span><br /><br />When we compare two persons or two things with each other,<br /><br /> We use both the Positive degree and Comparative degree.<br /><br /><b>Examples:</b><br /><br />a. This house is bigger than that one. (Comparative degree)<br /><br />This house is not as big as that one. (Positive degree)<br /><br />The term “bigger” is comparative version of the term “big”.<br /><br />Both these sentences convey the same meaning.<br /><br /> </p><p>b. This flower is more beautiful than that. (Comparative)<br /><br />This flower is not as beautiful as that. (Positive) <br /><br />The term “more beautiful” is comparative version of the term “beautiful”.<br /><br />Both these sentences convey the same meaning.<br /><br /> </p><p>c. He is more intelligent than this boy. (Comparative)<br /><br />He is not as intelligent as this boy. (Positive)<br /><br /> </p><p>The term “more intelligent” is comparative version of the term “intelligent”.<br /><br /> Both these sentences convey the same meaning.<br /><br /> </p><p>d. He is taller than Mr. Hulas. (Comparative)<br /><br /> He is not as tall as Mr. Hulas. (Positive)<br /><br /> </p><p>The term “taller” is comparative version of the term “tall”.<br /><br />Both these sentences convey the same meaning.<br /><br />The third one in the Degrees of Comparison is...<br /><br /><span style="color:green;">3.Superlative degree:</span><br /><br /><br /><br />When we compare more than two persons or things with one another,<br /><br /> We use all the three Positive, Comparative and Superlative degrees.<br /><br /><b>Examples:</b><br /><br /> </p><p>a. This is the biggest house in this street. (Superlative)<br /><br /> This house is bigger than any other house in this street. (Comparative)<br /><br /> No other house in this street is as big as this one. (Positive)<br /><br /> </p><p> The term “biggest” is the superlative version of the term “big”.<br /><br /> All the three sentences mean the same meaning.<br /><br /> </p><p>b. This flower is the most beautiful one in this garden. (Superlative)<br /><br /> This flower is more beautiful than any other flower in this garden. (Comparative)<br /><br /> No other flower in this garden is as beautiful as this one. (Comparative)<br /><br /> </p><p> The term “most beautiful” is the superlative version of the term “beautiful”.<br /><br /> All the three sentences mean the same meaning.<br /><br /> c. He is the most intelligent in this class. (Superlative)<br /><br />He is more intelligent than other boys in the class. (Comparative)<br /><br />No other boy is as intelligent as this boy. (Positive)<br /><br /> </p><p>The term “most intelligent” is superlative version of the term “intelligent”.<br /><br /> Both these sentences convey the same meaning.<br /><br /> </p><p>d. He is the tallest student in this class. (Superlative)<br /><br /> He is taller than other students in this class. (Comparative)<br /><br />No other student is as tall as this student. (Positive)<br /><br /> </p><p> The term “tallest” is superlative version of the term “tall”.<br /><br /> Both these sentences convey the same meaning.<br /></p><br /><span style="color:blue;"><h5>*Degrees of Comparison are applicable only to Adjectives and Adverbs*</h5></span> <p><span style="color:blue;"><h5>*Nouns and verbs do not have degrees of comparisons*</h5></span> </p><p> </p><p>He is the tallest student in the class.<br /><br />The term “tallest” is an adjective.<br /><br />Among the members of the group, Mr. Clinton speaks most effectively.<br /><br /> </p><p>The term “effectively” is an adverb.<br /><br /> </p><p>All the terms used in the above-<span class="IL_AD" id="IL_AD8">examples</span> are either adjectives or adverbs.<br /><br />We have seen all the three Degrees of Comparison.<br /><br />Let us see their models.<br /><br /> </p><p><span style="color:green;">Model -1: “The best”:</span><br /><br /><b>Examples:</b><br /><br />i. This is the best hotel in this area. <br /><br /> </p><p> No other hotel is as better as this on in this area.<br /><br /> </p><p> No other hotel is as good as this one in this area.<br /><br /> </p><p>ii. Unemployment is the most serious problem facing our country.<br /><br /> Unemployment is more serious than any other problem facing our country.<br /><br /> </p><p> No other problem facing our country is as serious as unemployment.<br /><br /> </p><p><span style="color:green;">Model-2: “One of the best”:</span><br /><br /><b>Examples:</b><br /><br /> </p><p>i. Calcutta is one of the largest cities in India.<br /><br /> </p><p> Calcutta is large than most other cities in India.<br /><br /> Very few cities in India are as large as Calcutta.<br /><br /> </p><p>ii. Satin Tendulkar is one of the best batsmen in the world.<br /><br /> </p><p>Satin Tendulkar is better than most other batsmen in the world.<br /><br /> </p><p>No other batman in the world is as good as Satin Tendulkar.<br /><br /> </p><p><span style="color:green;">Model-3: “Not the best”:</span><br /><br /><b>Examples:</b><br /><br />i. This is not the best solution to the problem.<br /><br />ii. This is not better than few other solutions to this problem.<br /><br />iii. Other solutions to this problem are not as good as this one.<br /><br /> </p><p> </p><p>ii. New York is not the largest city in America.<br /><br /> New York is not bigger than many other cities in America.<br /><br /> Few other cities in America are at least as large as New York.<br /><br /> </p><p>Few adjectives and adverbs get their Comparative forms by simply getting “more” before them.<br /><br />And their superlative terms, by getting “most” before them.<br /><br /><b>Examples:</b><br /><br /> </p><p>Beautiful..........more beautiful..........most beautiful<br /><br /> </p><p>Effective……….more effective………most effective<br /><br /> </p><p>Effectively………more effectively……….most effectively<br /><br /> </p><p>Enjoyable………….more enjoyable……….most enjoyable<br /><br /> </p><p>Useful……………….more useful………..most useful<br /><br /> </p><p>Different………..more different…………most different<br /><br /> </p><p>Honest………..more honest…………..most honest<br /><br /> </p><p>Qualified…………more qualified…………most qualified<br /><br /> </p><p>Few adjectives and adverbs get their Comparative forms by simply getting “er” after them and their superlative terms, by getting “est” after them.<br /><br /><b>Examples:</b><br /><br />Hard……………..harder……………..hardest<br /><br /> Big……………….bigger…………….biggest<br /><br /> </p><p>Tall……………..taller……………tallest<br /><br /> </p><p>Long………………longer………………longest<br /><br /> </p><p>Short……………..shorter……………….shortest<br /><br /> </p><p>Costly…………………costlier……………costliest<br /><br /> </p><p>Simple………………….simpler………….simplest </p>Degrees of Comparison add beauty and varieties to the sentences.mustafa akbashttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11849599067252389372noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7417032229366180249.post-44207501355308772592010-05-23T12:45:00.000-07:002010-05-23T12:52:32.879-07:00<h2 class="level1">Conditional Sentence Type 1</h2><br /><h2>Form</h2> <p><strong><em>if</em> + Simple Present, will-Future</strong></p> <p class="example"><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">Example:</span> <span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;" lang="en" lang="en">If I find her address, I will send her an invitation.</span></p> <p>The main clause can also be at the beginning of the sentence. In this case, don't use a comma.</p> <p class="example"><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">Example:</span> <span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;" lang="en" lang="en">I will send her an invitation if I find her address.</span></p> <p><strong>Note:</strong> Main clause and / or if clause might be negative. See <a href="http://www.ego4u.com/de/cram-up/grammar/simple-present">Simple Present</a> und <a href="http://www.ego4u.com/en/cram-up/grammar/future-1-will">will-Future</a> on how to form negative sentences.</p> <p class="example"><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">Example:</span> <span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;" lang="en" lang="en">If I don’t see him this afternoon, I will phone him in the evening.</span></p><h1>IF Clause Type 2</h1><br /><h2>Form</h2> <p><strong><em>if</em> + Simple Past, main clause with Conditional I (= would + Infinitive)</strong></p> <p class="example"><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">Example:</span> <span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;" lang="en" lang="en">If I found her address, I would send her an invitation.</span></p> <p>The main clause can also be at the beginning of the sentence. In this case, don't use a comma.</p> <p class="example"><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">Example:</span> <span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;" lang="en" lang="en">I would send her an invitation if I found her address.</span></p> <p><strong>Note:</strong> Main clause and / or if clause might be negative. See <a href="http://www.ego4u.com/en/cram-up/grammar/simple-past">Simple Past</a> und <a href="http://www.ego4u.com/en/cram-up/grammar/conditional-1-simple">Conditional I</a> on how to form negative sentences.</p> <p class="example"><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">Example:</span><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;" lang="en" lang="en"> If I had a lot of money, I wouldn’t stay here.</span></p><br /><h1>IF Clause Type 3</h1><br /><h2>Form</h2> <p><strong><em>if</em> + Past Perfect, main clause with Conditional II</strong></p> <p class="example"><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">Example:</span> <span lang="en" lang="en"><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">If I had found her address, I would have sent her an invitation</span>.</span></p> <p>The main clause can also be at the beginning of the sentence. In this case, don't use a comma.</p> <p class="example"><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">Example:</span> <span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;" lang="en" lang="en">I would have sent her an invitation if I had found her address.</span></p> <p><strong>Note:</strong> Main clause and / or if clause might be negative. See <a href="http://www.ego4u.com/en/cram-up/grammar/past-perfect-simple">Past Perfect</a> and <a href="http://www.ego4u.com/en/cram-up/grammar/conditional-2-simple">Conditional II</a> on how to form negative sentences.</p> <span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;" lang="en" lang="en"><span style="font-style: italic;"><span style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-style: italic;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">Example :</span></span></span></span></span>If I hadn’t studied, I wouldn’t have passed my exams</span>mustafa akbashttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11849599067252389372noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7417032229366180249.post-91495476054728541952010-05-23T12:37:00.000-07:002010-05-23T12:38:43.940-07:00Adjective Clauses<h2><a name="adjcls"><br /></a></h2> <p>An <a name="adjective clause"><strong>adjective clause</strong></a> is a dependent clause which takes the place of an adjective in another clause or phrase. Like an adjective, an adjective clause modifies a noun or <a href="http://www.uottawa.ca/academic/arts/writcent/hypergrammar/pronouns.html#pronoun">pronoun</a>, answering questions like "which?" or "what kind of?" Consider the following examples:</p> <dl><dt><strong>Adjective</strong></dt></dl><ul><li>the <strong>red</strong> coat</li></ul> <dl><dt><strong>Adjective clause</strong></dt></dl><ul><li>the coat <strong>which I bought yesterday</strong></li></ul> <p>Like the word "red" in the first example, the dependent clause "which I bought yesterday" in the second example modifies the noun "coat." Note that an adjective clause usually comes <em>after</em> what it modifies, while an adjective usually comes <em>before</em>.</p> <p>In formal writing, an adjective clause begins with the <a href="http://www.uottawa.ca/academic/arts/writcent/hypergrammar/pronouns.html#relative%20pronoun">relative pronouns</a> "who(m)," "that," or "which." In informal writing or speech, you may leave out the relative pronoun when it is not the subject of the adjective clause, but you should usually include the relative pronoun in formal, academic writing:</p> <dl><dt><strong>informal</strong></dt></dl><ul><li>The books people read were mainly religious.</li></ul><dl><dt><strong>formal</strong></dt></dl><ul><li>The books <strong>that</strong> people read were mainly religious.</li></ul> <dl><dt><strong>informal</strong></dt></dl><ul><li>Some firefighters never meet the people they save.</li></ul><dl><dt><strong>formal</strong></dt></dl><ul><li>Some firefighters never meet the people <strong>whom</strong> they save.</li></ul> <p>Here are some more examples of adjective clauses:</p> <ul><li>the meat <strong>which they ate</strong> was tainted</li></ul> <p>This clause modifies the noun "meat" and answers the question "which meat?".</p> <ul><li>about the movie <strong>which made him cry</strong></li></ul> <p>This clause modifies the noun "movie" and answers the question "which movie?".</p> <ul><li>they are searching for the one <strong>who borrowed the book</strong></li></ul> <p>The clause modifies the pronoun "one" and answers the question "which one?".</p> <ul><li>Did I tell you about the author <strong>whom I met</strong>?</li></ul> <p>The clause modifies the noun "author" and answers the question "which author?".</p>mustafa akbashttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11849599067252389372noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7417032229366180249.post-55144415686860621442010-05-23T12:32:00.001-07:002010-05-23T12:32:36.337-07:00cerita tentang cinta 2<span style="color:darkgreen;"><span style="font-family:Comic Sans MS;"><b>Üniversite sınavına hazırlanıyordu <a href="http://www.tatliaskim.com/">aşk</a>ım... </b></span></span><br /><span class="mesaj-yazi-alani-gizle"><a href="http://www.tatliaskim.com/hikayeler-oykuler/202791-acikli-bir-hikaye.html">Acıklı Bir Hikaye :(</a></span> <span style="font-family:Comic Sans MS;"><span style="color:darkgreen;"><b>Geçen sene kazanamadığından<img style="max-width: 1000px; 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cursor: pointer;" onclick="window.open(this.src)" src="http://www.tatliaskim.com/images/smilies/virgul.gif" alt="" title="," class="inlineimg" border="0" /> belki benden de iyi bir çocuk bulur eşim diyebileceği... </b></span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-family:Comic Sans MS;"><span style="color:darkgreen;"><b>Ama şimdi gitme vakti... </b></span></span><br /> <span style="font-family:Comic Sans MS;"><span style="color:darkgreen;"><b>Cemaat hareketlendi... </b></span></span><br /><span style="font-family:Comic Sans MS;"><span style="color:darkgreen;"><b>İkinci babam dediğim biricik kayınpederim<img style="max-width: 1000px; cursor: pointer;" onclick="window.open(this.src)" src="http://www.tatliaskim.com/images/smilies/virgul.gif" alt="" title="," class="inlineimg" border="0" /> öz babamla birlikte kucakladılar tabutumu... </b></span></span><br /><span style="font-family:Comic Sans MS;"><span style="color:darkgreen;"><b>Ne tesadüftür<img style="max-width: 1000px; cursor: pointer;" onclick="window.open(this.src)" src="http://www.tatliaskim.com/images/smilies/virgul.gif" alt="" title="," class="inlineimg" border="0" /> nasıl bir ayarlamadır ki tam da üniversite sınavı başlangıcında yenildim kansere... </b></span></span><br /> <span style="font-family:Comic Sans MS;"><span style="color:darkgreen;"><b>Belki ben hayatımı kaybettim<img style="max-width: 1000px; cursor: pointer;" onclick="window.open(this.src)" src="http://www.tatliaskim.com/images/smilies/virgul.gif" alt="" title="," class="inlineimg" border="0" /> ama Onun hayatını kurtardım... </b></span></span><br /> <span style="font-family:Comic Sans MS;"><span style="color:darkgreen;"><b>Artık rüyalarda görüşürüz sevgilim...</b></span></span>mustafa akbashttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11849599067252389372noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7417032229366180249.post-13728316482444430542010-05-23T12:30:00.000-07:002010-05-23T12:31:10.365-07:00cerita tentang cintaTamamen Gerçek Hayattan Alıntı Bu Aşk Hikayesini Okurken Çok<br />Duygulanacak<br />Hüzünlenecek ve Bu Hikaye\\\'nin Etkisinde Kalacak ve Bu Etkiyi<br />Üzerinizden Bir<br />Kaç Gün Boyunca Atamayacaksınız. Hiyakenin Konusu Bir Gençin Sonu<br />Ölümle<br />Biten Çocukluk Sevdasını Anlatıyor...<br /><br />BIZIMKISI BIR ASK HIKAYESI<br /><br />Sizin için ne derece önemi var bunu bilmiyorum ama ben bu satırları<br />yazarken<br />gözümden damlalar akıyor klavye üzerine. Erkekler ağlamaz lafı bana<br />göre<br />değil. Ağlamaktan hiç utanmadım,duygularım,acılarım beni boğduğu zaman<br />hep<br />ağladım.Yine ağlıyorum... Sizleri tanımıyorum ama sizlerle paylaşmak<br />istiyorum.Lütfen;bu satırlara bir seven olarak sahip çıkın ve lütfen<br />yazılı<br />satırlar olarak geçmeyin. Okudukça yeryüzünde insanlar neleri yaşarmış<br />diyeceksiniz buna eminim. Bir memur ailenin en küçük çocuğu olarak<br />babamın<br />tayininin çıktığı bir köye taşındık.Huzursuzdum,okulumu bir köy<br />okulunda<br />okumaktansa ,şehirde medenice okumak istiyordum.kaydımı yaptırdı babam<br />okula.İlkokul 4. sınıftan başladım köy okuluna.Beni bir sınıfa<br />verdiler.Öğretmen köyde yabancı olduğumu biliyordu ve hangi sıraya<br />oturmak<br />istiyorsan otur dedi bana.Bir kızın yanı boştu sadece oraya<br />oturdum.Hayatımı<br />adadığım,gidişiyle beni bitiren insanla ilk o zaman tanıştım.İsmi<br />Altınay<br />idi.Çocuk yaşımda bile onun güzelliği beni çok etkilemişti.Masmavi<br />gözleri,gamze yanakları ile arada bir bana dönüp gülüşü,yanlış yazdığım<br />notlarımda kendi silgisiyle defterimdeki hatayı silmesi beni o minik<br />yaşımda<br />ona bağladı.O dönemlerde çocukça bir arkadaşlıktı. Zaman ilerledikçe<br />onsuz<br />tek saniye geçiremiyordum.ya ben onlara gidip ders çalışıyor, yada o<br />bize<br />geliyordu.Mükemmel bir paylaşımcıydı.Yüreğini,sevgisini,dostluğunu daha<br />o<br />yaşta vermişti bana.İlkokulu birlikte okuduk ve aynı sırada<br />bitirdik.Hep<br />onunla hep ona biraz daha alışarak. Ortaokula geçtiğimizde ailelerimize<br />rica<br />ettik ve bizi aynı okula yazdırdılar, hatta aynı sınıfa,hatta aynı<br />sıraya<br />oturmamız için babalarımız öğretmenlere adeta yalvardılar.Başarmıştık.<br />Yine<br />aynı sıradaydık.Geride kalan ilkokul dönemindeki iki yılda anladım ki<br />onsuz<br />hayat bana huzur vermiyordu.Yaşımız olgunlaştıkça o beni,ben onu daha<br />çok<br />seviyordum.Çocukça başlayan arkadaşlığımız sevgiye aşka dönüşmüştü<br />ortaokul<br />yıllarımız bitmek üzereyken.Şehir merkezinde.Ailelerimiz liseye<br />geçtiğimiz<br />sırada ortak bir karar aldılar.Buna göre tek ev kiralayacak ikimiz aynı<br />evde<br />kalacaktık.Annem de bizimle kalacaktı.Allah\\\'ım o karar bize<br />iletildiğinde<br />dakikalarca sarmaş dolaş kutlamıştık bunu.Ona aşık olmuştum.Aynı<br />duyguları o<br />da paylaşıyordu ve bunu fark eden ailelerimiz okul bittiğinde<br />evlendirelim<br />diye karar almışlardı bile.Ona tapıyordum artık.Haşa Allah\\\'a şirk koşar<br />gibi<br />günah işlercesine seviyordum.İlk elini tuttuğumda sakın bir daha<br />bırakma<br />demiştim. Yanakları kızarmıştı,utanmış ve başını önüne !<br />eğmiş,gülümsemiş ve<br />elimi sıkı sıkı kavramıştı.Artık her gün elele tutuşup okula gidiyor<br />okuldan<br />çıkarken elele dolaşıyor geziyor öyle gidiyorduk evimize.Arada bir<br />elleri<br />terler ve her terleyişte elini elimden kurulamak için çekerdi.Bunu her<br />yaptığında kızar elimi bırakma diye azarlardım,hep tamam tamam diyerek<br />gülümser ve hızla elini avucuma sokuştururdu. Her şey harikaydı,dünya<br />cennet<br />gibiydi gözümüzde.Yıllar akıp gidiyordu mutluluk içinde.Nihayet liseyi<br />de<br />bitirmek üzereydik.karne dönemi gelmişti.Karnelerimizi aldık hiç<br />kırığımız<br />yoktu.Sevinçle sarıldık birbirimize elimi tuttu.bunu kutlamak için bir<br />cafeye gidip cola içerek kutlayacaktık.Okulun az ilerisinden geçen bir<br />çakıl<br />yol vardı.Her zaman toz duman içinde olurdu.çakıllarla kaplıydı.O yolun<br />benim ve ölürcesine sevdiğim insanın ayrılmasında bu kadar rol<br />oynayacağını<br />bilsem hiç girer miydik o yola.Neler vermezdim o yolu yürümemek için.<br />Eli<br />yine elimdeydi,ansızın elini çekti,terlemişti yine eli.Sanırım dört<br />adım<br />atmıştım.Dönüp yine azarlayacaktım.Çünkü hem elimi bırakmış,hem de<br />geride<br />kalmıştı.Dönüp baktığımda Dünya başıma yıkıldı.Sanki gök kubbenin<br />altında<br />kaldım.yerdeydi ve yüzünden kan fışkırıyordu.ne yapacağımı bilemedim<br />üzerine<br />kapandım yüzüne yapışmış saçlarını kaldırdığımda hayatımı bitiren o<br />görüntüyle karşılaştım.Başı kesilmiş bir tavuk gibi<br />çırpınıyordu.Suratına<br />bir taş parçası bıçak gibi saplanmıştı ve bakmaya doyamadığım mavi<br />gözlerinden biri akmıştı.Suratının yarısı yoktu.Hırlıyordu bana bir<br />şeyler<br />demek istiyor kanla kaplı diğer gözünü temizleyerek bana bir şeyler<br />demeye<br />çalışıyordu.Yoldan geçen bir kamyonun tekerinin altından fırlayan bir<br />taş<br />suratına saplanmıştı.Ölürcesine bir aşkı,geleceğimizi kibrit<br />büyüklüğünde<br />bir taş parçasının bitireceğini bilemezdim.Donuk donuk hiç konuşamadan<br />yüzüne bakmaktan başka bir şey yapamıyordum. Ellerini tuttum kaldırdım<br />başını göğsüme dayadı ve elimi sıkı sıkı tuttu.Akan kan ellerimize<br />damlıyordu.Yoldan geçen bir araba durmuş bizi seyrediyordu,hastaneye<br />yetiştirelim dediğimde kanlı olduğu için almadı ve kaçtı gitti.Kimse<br />arabaya<br />almıyordu.çevreme bakıp yardım eden demekten,ona dönüp seni<br />seviyorum,beni<br />bırakma,dayan demekten başka bir şey yapamıyordum.İki dakikalık bir<br />çırpınıştan sonra kucağımda öldü.Cennet olan Dünya 5 dakikada cehenneme<br />döndü.Tam dokuz yıl oldu onu yitireli.<br />Kendime olan güvenimi yitirdim.Artık kimseyi sevemem,kimsede beni<br />sevemez<br />korkusundan kurtaramıyorum kendimi.Bitkisel hayatta gibiyim.Tek elimde<br />kalan<br />bu net.bu net aracılığıyla sizinle paylaşmak istedim.Yitiren,ya da ben<br />yitirenle paylaşmak isteyen herkese elleri terlese bile ellerimi<br />bırakmamaları şartıyla elimi uzattım.Dost,kardeş,arkadaş ne olursanız<br />olun<br />ama elimi bırakmayın.Size sesleniyorum, elimi bırakmayın lütfen...<br /><br /><br />Bu yazıyı okurken sizinde eliniz terlediyse o zaman bilin ki sizde sevdiniz….<br /> duygulandınız hatta ağladınız ama işte kader…mustafa akbashttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11849599067252389372noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7417032229366180249.post-70226694605123092532010-05-23T12:25:00.000-07:002010-05-23T12:26:24.342-07:00hasret = hasratbiliyor musun en cok mektuba baslamam gereken hitap seklinde zorlandim. bir baslasam sonu gelecekti eminim! ama siradan sozcukleri hic yakistiramadim sana, yapmacik sozlere konduramadim seni… sonra sana hic mektup yazmadigim aklima geldi, icim burkuldu, canim acidi…<br />bu mektubu sana gurbetten yaziyorum; sesine sozune hasret, yuzune hasret, sicagina hasret gonlumle basliyorum mektubuma. seni o kadar cok ozledim ki; meger hic bir kucak seninki kadar sicak degilmis, hicbir aci senin yokluguna bedel degilmis. hic ama hicbir hasret senin ozlemin kadar yakmazmis icimi.<br />en acisi, dost bildiklerim, yar sectiklerim toplanip bir araya gelseler, senin ceyregin bile edemezmis. bilsen ne zor bunlari itiraf etmek [...]mustafa akbashttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11849599067252389372noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7417032229366180249.post-53690901212320480542010-05-23T12:20:00.000-07:002010-05-23T12:21:11.122-07:00ayat-ayat tentang syukur<div class="content_txt_page"> <p><strong><span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 0);">Definisi Syukur :</span></strong></p> <p class="MsoNormal">Memuji, berterima kasih dan merasa berhutang budi kepada Allah atas karunia-Nya, bahagia atas karunia tersebut dan mencintai-Nya dengan melaksanakan ketaatan kepada-Nya.</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p><p class="MsoNormal"><strong><span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 0);">Kewajiban Bersyukur :</span></strong></p> <p class="MsoNormal">“Hai orang-orang yang beriman, makanlah diantara rizki yang baik-baik yang Kami berikan kepadamu dan bersyukurlah kepada Allah, jika benar-benar hanya kepadaNya kamu menyembah.” (QS. Al Baqarah: 172).</p> <p class="MsoNormal">“Sesungguhnya apa yang kamu sembah selain Allah itu adalah berhala, dan kamu membuat dusta. Sesungguhnya yang kamu sembah selain Allah itu tidak mampu memberikan rezki kepadamu; maka mintalah rezki itu di sisi Allah, dan sembahlah Dia dan bersyukurlah kepada-Nya. Hanya kepada- Nyalah kamu akan dikembalikan.” (QS. Al Ankabut : 17)</p> <p class="MsoNormal">“Karena itu, ingatlah kamu kepada-Ku niscaya Aku ingat (pula) kepadamu, dan bersyukurlah kepada-Ku, dan janganlah kamu mengingkari-Ku.” (QS. Al Baqarah: 152)</p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="gen">“Karena itu, maka hendaklah Allah saja kamu sembah dan hendaklah kamu termasuk orang-orang yang bersyukur.” (QS. Az-Zumar: 66)</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="gen"></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p><p class="MsoNormal"><strong><span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 0);">Mengapa Harus Bersyukur :</span></strong></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="gen">“Dan Allah mengeluarkan kamu dari perut ibumu dalam keadaan tidak mengetahui sesuatupun, dan Dia memberi kamu pendengaran, penglihatan dan hati, agar kamu bersyukur.” (QS. An Nahl: 78)</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal">“Dan karena rahmat-Nya, Dia jadikan untukmu malam dan siang, supaya kamu beristirahat pada malam itu dan supaya kamu mencari sebahagian dari karunia-Nya dan agar kamu bersyukur kepada-Nya.” (QS. Al Qashas : 73)</p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">“Dan suatu tanda (kekuasaan Allah yang besar) bagi mereka adalah bumi yang mati. Kami hidupkan bumi itu dan Kami keluarkan dari padanya biji-bijian, maka daripadanya mereka makan. Dan Kami jadikan padanya kebun-kebun kurma dan anggur dan Kami pancarkan padanya beberapa mata air, supaya mereka dapat makan dari buahnya, dan dari apa yang diusahakan oleh tangan mereka. Maka mengapakah mereka tidak bersyukur?” (QS. Yasien 33-35)</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="gen">“Allah-lah yang telah menciptakan langit dan bumi dan menurunkan air hujan dari langit, kemudian Dia mengeluarkan dengan air hujan itu berbagai buah-buahan menjadi rezki untukmu; dan Dia telah menundukkan bahtera bagimu supaya bahtera itu, berlayar di lautan dengan kehendak-Nya, dan Dia telah menundukkan (pula) bagimu sungai-sungai. Dan Dia telah menundukkan (pula) bagimu matahari dan bulan yang terus menerus beredar (dalam orbitnya); dan telah menundukkan bagimu malam dan siang. Dan Dia telah memberikan kepadamu (keperluanmu) dan segala apa yang kamu mohonkan kepadanya. Dan jika kamu menghitung nikmat Allah, tidaklah dapat kamu menghinggakannya. Sesungguhnya manusia itu, sangat zalim dan sangat mengingkari (nikmat Allah).” (QS. Ibrahim : 32-34)</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"> </span>“Ini adalah anugerah dari Tuhanku, agar ia mencoba aku, apakah aku bersyukur ataukah aku kufur. Siapa yang bersyukur, sesungguhnya ia bersyukur kepada dirinya sendiri, dan siapa yang kufur, sesungguhnya Tuhanku Maha Kaya dan Maha Mulia.” (QS. An Naml: 40)</p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="gen"><span lang="EN-US"> </span></span><span class="gen">“Dan apa saja nikmat yang ada pada kamu, maka dari Allah-lah (datangnya), dan bila kamu ditimpa oleh kemudharatan, maka hanya kepada-Nya-lah kamu meminta pertolongan.”</span> (QS. An Nahl :16)</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p><p class="MsoNormal"><span class="gen">“Dan Dialah Allah, tidak ada Tuhan melainkan Dia, bagi-Nyalah segala puji di dunia dan di akhirat, dan bagi-Nyalah segala penentuan dan hanya kepada-Nyalah kamu dikembalikan.” (QS. Al Qashash : 70)</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p><p class="MsoNormal"> </p><p class="MsoNormal"><strong><span style="color: darkred;">Manfaat Bersyukur :</span></strong></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="gen">“Dan (ingatlah juga), tatkala Tuhanmu memaklumkan: Sesungguhnya jika kamu bersyukur, pasti Kami akan menambah (nikmat) kepadamu, dan jika kamu mengingkari (nikmat-Ku), maka sesungguhnya azab-Ku sangat pedih.” (QS. Ibrahim: 7)</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="gen">“Dan sesungguhnya telah Kami berikan hikmah kepada Luqman, yaitu: Bersyukurlah kepada Allah. Dan barangsiapa yang bersyukur, maka sesungguhnya ia bersyukur untuk dirinya sendiri, dan barangsiapa yang tidak bersyukur, maka sesungguhnya Allah Maha Kaya lagi Maha Terpuji.” (QS. Al Luqman : 31)</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="gen">“Mengapa Allah akan menyiksamu, jika kamu bersyukur dan beriman? Dan Allah adalah Maha Mensyukuri lagi Maha Mengetahui.” (QS. An Nisaa’ : 147)</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="gen">“Sesuatu yang bernyawa tidak akan mati melainkan dengan izin Allah, sebagai ketetapan yang telah ditentukan waktunya. Barang siapa menghendaki pahala dunia, niscaya Kami berikan kepadanya pahala dunia itu, dan barang siapa menghendaki pahala akhirat, Kami berikan (pula) kepadanya pahala akhirat itu. Dan kami akan memberi balasan kepada orang-orang yang bersyukur.” (QS. Ali Imran:145)</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="gen">“Bersyukur atas nikmat Allah akan melestarikan nikmat tersebut.” (HR. Ad Dailami)</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal">Ibnu `Abbas menceritakan, Rasulullah bersabda, “Orang pertama yanag akan dipanggil untuk masuk surga adalah orang-orang yang senantiasa memanjatkan puji syukur kepada Allah, yaitu orang-orang yang senantiasa memuji Allah dalam keadaan lapang dan dalam keadaan sempit” (Tanbihul Ghafilin 197)</p> <p class="MsoNormal">Rasulullah bersabda, “Sesungguhnya sebaik-baik hamba Allah adalah orang yang suka memanjatkan puji dan syukur kepada Allah” (Riyadhus Shalihin 27)</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p><p class="MsoNormal"><strong><span style="color: darkred;">Cara Bersyukur :</span></strong></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">“Dan sesungguhnya jika kamu tanyakan kepada mereka: `Siapakah yang menciptakan langit dan bumi?` Tentu mereka akan menjawab: `Allah.` Katakanlah : `Segala puji bagi Allah`; tetapi kebanyakan mereka tidak mengetahui. ” (QS Luqman : 25)</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">“Sesungguhnya Kami telah memberikan kepadamu nikmat yang banyak. Maka dirikanlah shalat karena Tuhanmu; dan berkorbanlah.” (QS. Al Kautsar : 1-2)</span></p> <p>“Bahwasanya Nabi SAW, apabila datang kepadanya suatu perkara yang menggembirakan atau mendapatkan kabar gembira, beliau langsung bersyukur sujud, bersyukur kepada Allah SWT.” (HR Abu Dawud)</p> <p class="MsoNormal">Ketika Rasulullah shallallahu’alaihi wassalam beribadah sampai beliau bengkak-bengkak, Sayidah Aisyah istrinya berkata, “Wahai Rasulullah, mengapa engkau beribadah sampai seperti itu, bukankah Allah telah mengampuni segala dosamu?” Rasulullah menjawab, “Tidakkah engkau suka aku menjadi hamba Allah yang bersyukur?”</p> <p class="MsoNormal">Dari Ibnu Umar bahwa Rasulullah berceritera, “Bahwasanya salah seorang hamba di antara hamba-hamba Allah mengucapkan, `Ya Rabbi, Lakal hamdu kamaa yanbaghii li jalaali wajhika wa azhiimi sulthaanika [ya Tuhanku, kepunyaan-Mulah segala puji sebagaimana yang layak bagi keluruhan-Mulah dan keagungan-Mu]`. Maka, ucapan ini menjadikan kedua malaikat bingung sehingga mereka tidak tahu bagaimana yang harus mereka tulis. Maka naiklah keduanya kepada Allah, lalu berkata, `Ya Tuhan kami, sesungguhnya seorang hamba telah mengucapkan suatu perkataan yang kami tidak tahu bagaimana kami harus menulisnya.` Allah bertanya – padahal Dia Maha Mengetahui apa yang diucapkan oleh hamba-Nya, `Apa yang diucapkan oleh hamba-Ku?` Mereka menjawab,`Ya Tuhan kami, sesungguhnya dia mengucapkan, Lakal hamdu kamaa yanbaghii li jalaali wajhika wa azhiimi sulthaanika.` Kemudian Allah berfirman kepada mereka, `Tulislah sebagaimana yang diucapkan hamba-Ku itu hingga dia bertemu Aku, maka Aku yang akan membalasnya” .(HR Ibnu Majjah)</p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">“Siapa yang tidak berterimakasi kepada manusia, berarti tidak berterimakasih kepada Allah” (HR Abu Daud)</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal">Syaikh Ibnu Athaillah menuturkan “Seseorang mukmin itu suka menyibukkan diri menyanjung Allah, sehingga tidak sempat untuk memuji dirinya sendiri, dan ia sibuk menunaikan kewajiban kepada Allah sehingga ia lupa akan porsi untuk dirinya sendiri”. (Al-Hikam)</p> <p class="MsoNormal">Syaikh Ibnu Athaillah menuturkan: “Siapa yang tidak mengetahui begitu berharganya nikmat, ketika kenikmatan itu bersertanya, maka barulah ia mengetahui betapa berartinya nikmat itu setelah nikmat itu pergi meninggalkannya.” (Al-Hikam)</p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><strong><span style="color: darkred;">Kebanyakan Manusia Tidak Bersyukur :</span></strong></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="gen">“Iblis menjawab: Karena Engkau telah menghukum saya tersesat, saya benar-benar akan (menghalang-halangi) mereka dari jalan Engkau yang lurus. Kemudian saya akan mendatangi mereka dari muka dan dari belakang mereka, dari kanan dan dari kiri mereka. Dan Engkau tidak akan mendapati kebanyakan mereka bersyukur.” (QS. Al A’raf 16-17)</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal">“Sesungguhnya Allah benar-benar mempunyai karunia yang dilimpahkan atas umat manusia, akan tetapi kebanyakan mereka tidak mensyukurinya.” (QS. Yunus: 60).</p> <p class="MsoNormal">“Katakanlah: ‘Siapakah yang dapat menyelamatkan kamu dari bencara di darat dan di laut yang kamu berdo’a kepadaNya dengan berendah diri dengan suara yang lembut (dengan mengetakan): ‘Sesungguhnya jika Dia menyelamatkan kami dari bencana ini, tentulah kami menjadi orang-orang yang bersyukur’. Katakanlah: ‘Allah menyelamatkan kamu daripada bencana itu dan dari segala macam kesusahan, kemudian kamu kembali mempersekutukanNya.” (QS. Al An’am: 63-64).</p> <p class="MsoNormal">“Hai manusia, ingatlah akan nikmat Allah kepadamu. Adakah pencipta selain Allah yang dapat memberikan rezki kepada kamu dari langit dan bumi ? Tidak ada Tuhan selain Dia; maka mengapakah kamu berpaling (dari ketauhidan)?” (QS. Al-Fathir: 3)</p> <p class="MsoNormal">“Dan ketika Kami (Allah) memberikan nikmat kepada manusia, ia memalingkan muka dan bersikap angkuh, dan ketika ia ditimpa keburukan ia berputus asa.” (QS. Al Isra’ : 83)</p> <p class="MsoNormal">“Sesungguhnya Allah mempunyai karunia terhadap manusia, akan tetapi kebanyakan manusia tidak bersyukur.” (QS. Al-Baqarah: 243)</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p><p class="MsoNormal"><strong><span style="color: darkred;">Ancaman bagi yang Tidak Bersyukur:</span></strong></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="gen">“Dan (ingatlah juga), tatkala Tuhanmu memaklumkan: Sesungguhnya jika kamu bersyukur, pasti Kami akan menambah (nikmat) kepadamu, dan jika kamu mengingkari (nikmat-Ku), maka sesungguhnya azab-Ku sangat pedih.” (QS. Ibrahim: 7)</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="gen">“Sesungguhnya Allah membela orang-orang yang telah beriman. Sesungguhnya Allah tidak menyukai tiap-tiap orang yang berkhianat lagi mengingkari nikmat.” (QS. Al Hajj : 38)</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">“Sesungguhnya bagi kaum Saba’ ada tanda (kekuasaan Tuhan) di tempat kediaman mereka yaitu dua buah kebun di sebelah kanan dan di sebelah kiri. (kepada mereka dikatakan): `Makanlah olehmu dari rezki yang (dianugerahkan) Tuhanmu dan bersyukurlah kamu kepada-Nya. (Negerimu) adalah negeri yang baik dan (Tuhanmu) adalah Tuhan Yang Maha Pengampun.`<span class="gen">Tetapi mereka berpaling, maka Kami datangkan kepada mereka banjir yang besar dan Kami ganti kedua kebun mereka dengan dua kebun yang ditumbuhi (pohon-pohon) yang berbuah pahit, pohon Atsl dan sedikit dari pohon Sidr. </span>Demikianlah Kami memberi balasan kepada mereka karena kekafiran mereka. Dan Kami tidak menjatuhkan azab (yang demikian itu), melainkan hanya kepada orang-orang yang sangat kafir.” (QS. Saba` : 15-17)</span></p></div>mustafa akbashttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11849599067252389372noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7417032229366180249.post-29956898002299572972010-05-23T12:15:00.000-07:002010-05-23T12:16:29.382-07:00future Continuous<ul><li>You <strong>will be waiting</strong> for her when her plane arrives tonight.</li><li><strong>Will</strong> you <strong>be waiting</strong> for her when her plane arrives tonight?</li><li>You <strong>will not be waiting</strong> for her when her plane arrives tonight.</li><li>You <strong>are going to be waiting</strong> for her when her plane arrives tonight.</li><li><strong>Are</strong> you <strong>going to be waiting</strong> for her when her plane arrives tonight?</li><li>You <strong>are not going to be waiting</strong> for her when her plane arrives tonight.</li><li>I <strong>will be watching</strong> TV when she <em class="italics">arrives</em> tonight.</li><li>I <strong>will be waiting</strong> for you when your bus <em class="italics">arrives</em>.</li><li>I <strong>am going to be staying</strong> at the Madison Hotel, if anything <em class="italics">happens</em> and you <em class="italics">need</em> to contact me.</li><li>He <strong>will be studying</strong> at the library tonight, so he will not see Jennifer when she <em class="italics">arrives</em>.</li></ul>mustafa akbashttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11849599067252389372noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7417032229366180249.post-72146596957621099632010-05-23T12:13:00.001-07:002010-05-23T12:13:26.230-07:00simple past<ul><li>I <strong>saw</strong> a movie yesterday.</li><li>I <strong>didn't see</strong> a play yesterday.</li><li>Last year, I <strong>traveled</strong> to Japan.</li><li>Last year, I <strong>didn't travel</strong> to Korea.</li><li><strong>Did</strong> you <strong>have</strong> dinner last night? </li><li>She <strong>washed</strong> her car.</li><li>He <strong>didn't wash</strong> his car.</li></ul>mustafa akbashttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11849599067252389372noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7417032229366180249.post-77667420980415701412010-05-23T12:10:00.000-07:002010-05-23T12:11:47.495-07:00past continuous<ul><li>I <strong>was watching</strong> TV when she called.</li><li>When the phone rang, she <strong>was writing</strong> a letter.</li><li>While we <strong>were having</strong> the picnic, it started to rain.</li><li>What <strong>were</strong> you <strong>doing</strong> when the earthquake started? </li><li>I <strong>was listening</strong> to my iPod, so I didn't hear the fire alarm. </li><li>You <strong>were not listening</strong> to me when I told you to turn the oven off.</li><li>While John <strong>was sleeping</strong> last night, someone stole his car.</li><li>Sammy <strong>was waiting</strong> for us when we got off the plane. </li><li>While I <strong>was writing</strong> the email, the computer suddenly went off.</li><li>A: What <strong>were</strong> you <strong>doing</strong> when you broke your leg?<br /> B: I <strong>was snowboarding</strong>.</li></ul>mustafa akbashttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11849599067252389372noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7417032229366180249.post-69756654898396938912010-05-23T12:09:00.001-07:002010-05-23T12:09:55.398-07:00past perfect tense<ul><li>I <strong>had</strong> never <strong>seen</strong> such a beautiful beach before I went to Kauai.</li><li>I did not have any money because I <strong>had lost</strong> my wallet.</li><li>Tony knew Istanbul so well because he <strong>had visited</strong> the city several times.</li><li><strong>Had</strong> Susan ever <strong>studied</strong> Thai before she moved to Thailand?</li><li>She only understood the movie because she <strong>had read</strong> the book.</li><li>Kristine <strong>had</strong> never <strong>been</strong> to an opera before last night.</li><li>We were not able to get a hotel room because we <strong>had not booked</strong> in advance. </li><li>A: <strong>Had</strong> you ever <strong>visited</strong> the U.S. before your trip in 2006?<br /> B: Yes, I <strong>had been</strong> to the U.S. once before.</li></ul>mustafa akbashttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11849599067252389372noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7417032229366180249.post-73159128013570366902010-05-23T12:06:00.001-07:002010-05-23T12:06:49.858-07:00present perfect continuous<ul><li>They <strong>have been talking</strong> for the last hour.</li><li>She <strong>has been working</strong> at that company for three years.</li><li>What <strong>have</strong> you <strong>been doing</strong> for the last 30 minutes? </li><li>James <strong>has been teaching</strong> at the university since June.</li><li>We <strong>have been waiting </strong> here for over two hours! </li><li>Why <strong>has</strong> Nancy <strong>not been taking</strong> her medicine for the last three days?</li></ul> <h3><br /></h3>mustafa akbashttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11849599067252389372noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7417032229366180249.post-290241860770231282010-05-23T12:03:00.000-07:002010-05-23T12:04:50.338-07:00present perfect tense<ul><li>I <strong>have seen</strong> that movie twenty times.</li><li>I think I <strong>have met</strong> him once before.</li><li>There <strong>have been</strong> many earthquakes in California.</li><li>People <strong>have traveled</strong> to the Moon.</li><li>People <strong>have not traveled</strong> to Mars. </li><li><strong>Have</strong> you <strong>read</strong> the book yet? </li><li>Nobody <strong>has</strong> ever <strong>climbed</strong> that mountain. </li><li>A: <strong>Has</strong> there ever <strong>been</strong> a war in the United States?<br /> B: Yes, there <strong>has been</strong> a war in the United States.</li></ul>mustafa akbashttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11849599067252389372noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7417032229366180249.post-64828225439541453192010-05-23T12:01:00.001-07:002010-05-23T12:03:02.586-07:00present continous tense<ul><li>You <strong>are learning</strong> English now.</li><li>You <strong>are not swimming</strong> now.</li><li><strong>Are</strong> you <strong>sleeping</strong>?</li><li>I <strong>am sitting</strong>.</li><li>I <strong>am not standing</strong>.</li><li><strong>Is</strong> he <strong>sitting</strong> or <strong>standing</strong>? </li><li>They <strong>are reading</strong> their books.</li><li>They <strong>are not watching</strong> television.</li><li>What <strong>are</strong> you <strong>doing</strong>?</li><li>Why <strong>aren't</strong> you <strong>doing</strong> your homework?</li></ul>mustafa akbashttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11849599067252389372noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7417032229366180249.post-71863154769349070082010-05-23T11:53:00.000-07:002010-05-23T11:59:47.042-07:00peresent tense<table cool="" gridx="16" showgridx="" usegridx="" gridy="16" showgridy="" usegridy="" border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" width="801" height="1363"><tbody><tr height="144"><td colspan="3" rowspan="2" xpos="368" content="" csheight="1184" align="left" width="416" height="1248" valign="top">1)we are playing football<br />2)i am football player<br />3)kemal is at campus<br />4)you are beatiful<br />5)galatasaray is best team in the world<br /></td> <td width="1" height="144"><spacer type="block" width="1" height="144"></td> </tr> <tr height="1104"> <td xpos="0" content="" csheight="464" align="left" width="160" height="1104" valign="top"><br /></td> <td width="16" height="1104"><br /></td> <td width="1" height="1104"><spacer type="block" width="1" height="1104"></td></tr></tbody></table>mustafa akbashttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11849599067252389372noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7417032229366180249.post-86398773377699176352010-04-11T09:44:00.001-07:002010-04-11T09:44:53.945-07:00PASSIVE TENSSE<meta equiv="CONTENT-TYPE" content="text/html; charset=utf-8"><title></title><meta name="GENERATOR" content="OpenOffice.org 2.3 (Win32)"><style type="text/css"> <!-- @page { size: 21cm 29.7cm; margin: 2cm } P { margin-bottom: 0.21cm } H2 { margin-bottom: 0.21cm } TD P { margin-bottom: 0cm } TH P { margin-bottom: 0cm } --> </style> <h2>Use of Passive</h2> <p>Passive voice is used when the focus is on the action. It is not important or not known, however, who or what is performing the action.</p> <p>Example: My bike was stolen.</p> <p>In the example above, the focus is on the fact that my bike was stolen. I do not know, however, who did it.</p> <p>Sometimes a statement in passive is more polite than active voice, as the following example shows:</p> <p>Example: A mistake was made.</p> <p>In this case, I focus on the fact that a mistake was made, but I do not blame anyone (e.g. You have made a mistake.).</p> <h2>Form of Passive</h2> <p>Subject + finite form of <em>to be</em> + Past Participle (3rd column of <a href="http://www.ego4u.com/en/cram-up/grammar/irregular-verbs">irregular verbs</a>)</p> <p>Example: A letter was written.</p> <p>When rewriting active sentences in passive voice, note the following:</p> <ul><li><p style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">the object of the active sentence becomes the subject of the passive sentence </p> </li><li><p style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">the finite form of the verb is changed (<em>to be</em> + past participle) </p> </li><li><p>the subject of the active sentence becomes the object of the passive sentence (or is dropped) </p> </li></ul> <h2><a name="p0"></a><a name="i0"></a>Examples of Passive <a href="http://www.ego4u.com/en/cram-up/grammar/passive#p0" onclick="return false;" onmouseover="showTooltip('i0');" onmouseout="hideTooltip();">Level: lower intermediate</a><a href="http://www.ego4u.com/en/cram-up/grammar/passive#p0" onclick="return false;" onmouseover="showTooltip('i0');" onmouseout="hideTooltip();"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 128);"><img src="http://www.ego4u.com/images/misc/level-2.png" name="graphics1" alt="Level 2" width="47" align="BOTTOM" border="1" height="7" /></span></a><a href="http://www.ego4u.com/en/cram-up/grammar/passive#p0" onclick="return false;" onmouseover="showTooltip('i0');" onmouseout="hideTooltip();"></a> </h2> <table width="389" border="0" cellpadding="2" cellspacing="0"> <col width="106"> <col width="55"> <col width="52"> <col width="104"> <col width="52"> <tbody><tr> <th colspan="2" width="165"> <p>Tense</p> </th> <th width="52"> <p>Subject</p> </th> <th width="104"> <p>Verb</p> </th> <th width="52"> <p>Object</p> </th> </tr> <tr> <td rowspan="2" width="106"> <p><strong>Simple Present</strong></p> </td> <td width="55"> <p><em>Active:</em></p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>Rita</p> </td> <td width="104"> <p>writes</p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>a letter.</p> </td> </tr> <tr> <td width="55"> <p><em>Passive:</em></p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>A letter</p> </td> <td width="104"> <p>is written</p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>by Rita.</p> </td> </tr> <tr> <td rowspan="2" width="106"> <p><strong>Simple Past</strong></p> </td> <td width="55"> <p><em>Active:</em></p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>Rita</p> </td> <td width="104"> <p>wrote</p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>a letter.</p> </td> </tr> <tr> <td width="55"> <p><em>Passive:</em></p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>A letter</p> </td> <td width="104"> <p>was written</p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>by Rita.</p> </td> </tr> <tr> <td rowspan="2" width="106"> <p><strong>Present Perfect</strong></p> </td> <td width="55"> <p><em>Active:</em></p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>Rita</p> </td> <td width="104"> <p>has written</p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>a letter.</p> </td> </tr> <tr> <td width="55"> <p><em>Passive:</em></p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>A letter</p> </td> <td width="104"> <p>has been written</p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>by Rita.</p> </td> </tr> <tr> <td rowspan="2" width="106"> <p><strong>Future I</strong></p> </td> <td width="55"> <p><em>Active:</em></p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>Rita</p> </td> <td width="104"> <p>will write</p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>a letter.</p> </td> </tr> <tr> <td width="55"> <p><em>Passive:</em></p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>A letter</p> </td> <td width="104"> <p>will be written</p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>by Rita.</p> </td> </tr> <tr> <td rowspan="2" width="106"> <p><strong>Hilfsverben</strong></p> </td> <td width="55"> <p><em>Active:</em></p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>Rita</p> </td> <td width="104"> <p>can write</p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>a letter.</p> </td> </tr> <tr> <td width="55"> <p><em>Passive:</em></p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>A letter</p> </td> <td width="104"> <p>can be written</p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>by Rita.</p> </td> </tr> </tbody></table> <h2><a name="p1"></a><a name="i1"></a>Examples of Passive <a href="http://www.ego4u.com/en/cram-up/grammar/passive#p1" onclick="return false;" onmouseover="showTooltip('i1');" onmouseout="hideTooltip();">Level: upper intermediate</a><a href="http://www.ego4u.com/en/cram-up/grammar/passive#p1" onclick="return false;" onmouseover="showTooltip('i1');" onmouseout="hideTooltip();"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 128);"><img src="http://www.ego4u.com/images/misc/level-4.png" name="graphics2" alt="Level 4" width="47" align="BOTTOM" border="1" height="7" /></span></a><a href="http://www.ego4u.com/en/cram-up/grammar/passive#p1" onclick="return false;" onmouseover="showTooltip('i1');" onmouseout="hideTooltip();"></a> </h2> <table width="472" border="0" cellpadding="2" cellspacing="0"> <col width="136"> <col width="55"> <col width="52"> <col width="157"> <col width="52"> <tbody><tr> <th colspan="2" width="195"> <p>Tense</p> </th> <th width="52"> <p>Subject</p> </th> <th width="157"> <p>Verb</p> </th> <th width="52"> <p>Object</p> </th> </tr> <tr> <td rowspan="2" width="136"> <p><strong>Present Progressive</strong></p> </td> <td width="55"> <p><em>Active:</em></p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>Rita</p> </td> <td width="157"> <p>is writing</p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>a letter.</p> </td> </tr> <tr> <td width="55"> <p><em>Passive:</em></p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>A letter</p> </td> <td width="157"> <p>is being written</p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>by Rita.</p> </td> </tr> <tr> <td rowspan="2" width="136"> <p><strong>Past Progressive</strong></p> </td> <td width="55"> <p><em>Active:</em></p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>Rita</p> </td> <td width="157"> <p>was writing</p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>a letter.</p> </td> </tr> <tr> <td width="55"> <p><em>Passive:</em></p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>A letter</p> </td> <td width="157"> <p>was being written</p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>by Rita.</p> </td> </tr> <tr> <td rowspan="2" width="136"> <p><strong>Past Perfect</strong></p> </td> <td width="55"> <p><em>Active:</em></p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>Rita</p> </td> <td width="157"> <p>had written</p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>a letter.</p> </td> </tr> <tr> <td width="55"> <p><em>Passive:</em></p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>A letter</p> </td> <td width="157"> <p>had been written</p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>by Rita.</p> </td> </tr> <tr> <td rowspan="2" width="136"> <p><strong>Future II</strong></p> </td> <td width="55"> <p><em>Active:</em></p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>Rita</p> </td> <td width="157"> <p>will have written</p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>a letter.</p> </td> </tr> <tr> <td width="55"> <p><em>Passive:</em></p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>A letter</p> </td> <td width="157"> <p>will have been written</p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>by Rita.</p> </td> </tr> <tr> <td rowspan="2" width="136"> <p><strong>Conditional I</strong></p> </td> <td width="55"> <p><em>Active:</em></p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>Rita</p> </td> <td width="157"> <p>would write</p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>a letter.</p> </td> </tr> <tr> <td width="55"> <p><em>Passive:</em></p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>A letter</p> </td> <td width="157"> <p>would be written</p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>by Rita.</p> </td> </tr> <tr> <td rowspan="2" width="136"> <p><strong>Conditional II</strong></p> </td> <td width="55"> <p><em>Active:</em></p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>Rita</p> </td> <td width="157"> <p>would have written</p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>a letter.</p> </td> </tr> <tr> <td width="55"> <p><em>Passive:</em></p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>A letter</p> </td> <td width="157"> <p>would have been written</p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>by Rita.</p> </td> </tr> </tbody></table> <h2><a name="p2"></a><a name="i2"></a>Passive Sentences with Two Objects <a href="http://www.ego4u.com/en/cram-up/grammar/passive#p2" onclick="return false;" onmouseover="showTooltip('i2');" onmouseout="hideTooltip();">Level: intermediate</a><a href="http://www.ego4u.com/en/cram-up/grammar/passive#p2" onclick="return false;" onmouseover="showTooltip('i2');" onmouseout="hideTooltip();"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 128);"><img src="http://www.ego4u.com/images/misc/level-3.png" name="graphics3" alt="Level 3" width="47" align="BOTTOM" border="1" height="7" /></span></a><a href="http://www.ego4u.com/en/cram-up/grammar/passive#p2" onclick="return false;" onmouseover="showTooltip('i2');" onmouseout="hideTooltip();"></a> </h2> <p>Rewriting an active sentence with two objects in passive voice means that one of the two objects becomes the subject, the other one remains an object. Which object to transform into a subject depends on what you want to put the focus on.</p> <table width="322" border="0" cellpadding="2" cellspacing="0"> <col width="56"> <col width="52"> <col width="74"> <col width="59"> <col width="60"> <tbody><tr> <th width="56"> <p> </p>
<br /></th> <th width="52"> <p>Subject</p> </th> <th width="74"> <p>Verb</p> </th> <th width="59"> <p>Object 1</p> </th> <th width="60"> <p>Object 2</p> </th> </tr> <tr> <td width="56"> <p><em>Active:</em></p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>Rita</p> </td> <td width="74"> <p>wrote</p> </td> <td width="59"> <p>a letter</p> </td> <td width="60"> <p>to me.</p> </td> </tr> <tr> <td width="56"> <p><em>Passive:</em></p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>A letter</p> </td> <td width="74"> <p>was written</p> </td> <td width="59"> <p>to me</p> </td> <td width="60"> <p>by Rita.</p> </td> </tr> <tr> <td width="56"> <p><em>Passive:</em></p> </td> <td width="52"> <p>I</p> </td> <td width="74"> <p>was written</p> </td> <td width="59"> <p>a letter</p> </td> <td width="60"> <p>by Rita.</p> </td> </tr> </tbody></table> <p>. </p> <p>As you can see in the examples, adding <em>by Rita</em> does not sound very elegant. That’s why it is usually dropped.</p> <h2><a name="h06"></a>Personal and Impersonal Passive</h2> <p><em>Personal Passive</em> simply means that the object of the active sentence becomes the subject of the passive sentence. So every verb that needs an object (transitive verb) can form a personal passive.</p> <p>Example: They build houses. – Houses are built.</p> <p>Verbs without an object (intransitive verb) normally cannot form a personal passive sentence (as there is no object that can become the subject of the passive sentence). If you want to use an intransitive verb in passive voice, you need an impersonal construction – therefore this passive is called <em>Impersonal Passive</em>.</p> <p>Example: he says – it is said</p> <p><em>Impersonal Passive</em> is not as common in English as in some other languages (e.g. German, Latin). In English, <em>Impersonal Passive</em> is only possible with verbs of perception (e. g. say, think, know).</p> <p>Example: They say that women live longer than men. – It is said that women live longer than men.</p> <p>Although <em>Impersonal Passive</em> is possible here, <em>Personal Passive</em> is more common.</p> <p>Example: They say that women live longer than men. – Women are said to live longer than men.</p> <p>The subject of the subordinate clause (women) goes to the beginning of the sentence; the verb of perception is put into passive voice. The rest of the sentence is added using an infinitive construction with 'to' (certain auxiliary verbs and <em>that</em> are dropped).</p> <p>Sometimes the term <em>Personal Passive</em> is used in English lessons if the indirect object of an active sentence is to become the subject of the passive sentence.</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></p> mustafa akbashttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11849599067252389372noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7417032229366180249.post-45802203850956892772010-04-11T09:38:00.002-07:002010-04-11T09:40:47.102-07:00TULUS<div><strong><span style="font-size: 180%;">M</span>embaca tulisan ini mohon dengan hati nurani, dengan kesadaran yang terdalam. Insya Allah ada manfaatnya. Dalam khutbah Jumat, 6 Juni 2008, dengan khotib Ust. Edifrizal Darma, seorang dosen di FTSP Universitas Mercu Buana, disinggung mengenai kehidupan penyanyi kondang Gito Rolies (alm), yang diujung hayatnya ternyata dalam keadaan baik. </strong></div><div><strong></strong></div><div><strong><span style="font-size: 180%;"></span></strong> </div><div><strong><span style="font-size: 180%;">S</span>aya jadi teringat sebuah lagunya, yang syair-nya kira-kira begini (bagi yang paham, anda boleh ikut menyanyikannya, cukup di dalam hati....) </strong></div><br /><div><strong></strong></div><div><strong><em><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102);">Cinta yang tulus di dalam hatiku.... </span></em></strong></div><div><strong><em><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102);">Telah bersemi karena-mu..... </span></em></strong></div><div><strong><em><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102);">Hati yang suram kini tiada lagi.... </span></em></strong></div><div><strong><em><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102);">Telah bersinar karena-mu ...... </span></em></strong></div><br /><div><strong><em><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102);">Semua yang ada pada-mu..... </span></em></strong></div><div><strong><em><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102);">Oooo membuat diriku tiada berdaya ..... </span></em></strong></div><div><strong><em><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102);">Hanyalah bagi-mu hanyalah untuk-mu seluruh hidup dan cintaku..... </span></em></strong></div><br /><div><strong><em><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102);"></span></em></strong></div><div><strong><em><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102);">Biarkan hujan membasahi bumi.... </span></em></strong></div><div><strong><em><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102);">Atau bulan yang tiada berseri.... </span></em></strong></div><div><strong><em><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102);">Namun jangan kau biarkan cintaku.... </span></em></strong></div><div><strong><em><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102);">Yang tulus suci hanya pada-mu...... </span></em></strong></div><div><strong><em></em></strong></div><br /><div><strong>Nah, bagaimana kalau kita ubah sedikit syair-nya, menjadi seperti berikut : </strong></div><div><strong><em></em></strong></div><br /><div><strong><em><span style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);">Cinta yang tulus di dalam hatiku.... </span></em></strong></div><div><strong><em><span style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);">Telah bersemi karena-Mu..... </span></em></strong></div><div><strong><em><span style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);">Hati yang suram kini tiada lagi.... </span></em></strong></div><div><strong><em><span style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);">Telah bersinar karena-Mu ...... </span></em></strong></div><br /><div><strong><em><span style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);">Semua yang ada pada-Mu..... </span></em></strong></div><div><strong><em><span style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);">Oooo membuat diriku tiada berdaya ..... </span></em></strong></div><div><strong><em><span style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);">Hanyalah bagi-Mu hanyalah untuk-Mu seluruh hidup dan cintaku..... </span></em></strong></div><br /><div><strong><em><span style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);"></span></em></strong></div><div><strong><em><span style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);">Biarkan bulan membasahi bumi.... </span></em></strong></div><div><strong><em><span style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);">Atau bulan yang tiada berseri.... </span></em></strong></div><div><strong><em><span style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);">Namun jangan kau biarkan cintaku.... </span></em></strong></div><div><strong><em><span style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);">Yang tulus suci hanya pada-Mu...... </span></em></strong></div><br /><div><strong><em><span style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);"></span></em></strong></div><div><strong><span style="font-size: 180%;">J</span>adi yang berubah itu hanya penulisan "mu" menjadi "Mu". Ya, memang cinta yang tulus itu hanya pada Allah SWT, Tuhan pencipta semesta alam. Begitu juga yang dialami Gito Rolies, jika di usia mudanya, seluruh cintanya hanya pada-mu, bisa harta, tahta, wanita, keluarga atau populeritas, tetapi diujung hayatnya seluruh cinta, hidup dan matinya, semata-mata hanya pada-Mu, karena dan untuk Allah SWT. Itulah arti cinta yang tulus......</strong></div>mustafa akbashttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11849599067252389372noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7417032229366180249.post-77958820743844650792010-04-11T09:38:00.001-07:002010-04-11T09:38:28.583-07:00TERIMA KASIH<p><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0); font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">TERIMA KASIH</span></span><br /></p><p>Manusia tidak akan pernah bisa hidup dengan mengerjakan segala sesuatunya dengan sendirian. Kita pasti memerlukan bantuan orang lain, sekecil apapun bantuannya. Pernahkan anda mengucapkan terimakasih ke orang lain atas pertolongan yang diberikannya? Tentu saja pernah bukan? </p> <p> Mengucapkan terimakasih adalah hal yang sangat sederhana, murah tanpa biaya namun juga tidak semua orang mau melakukan.Sebagai misal kita sudah membayar tiket tol dengan mahal, namun mungkin anda bisa menghitung dengan jari dalam setahun berapa orang petugas tol yang mengucapkan terimakasih ke anda karena anda sudah menggunakan jasa tol. Sayang sekali hal sepele namun besar manfaatnya seperti ini jarang diperhatikan.Kalau dipikir-pikir apa ruginya kita berterimakasih bukan? </p> <p> Ucapan terimakasih adalah suatu penghargaan yang tulus ke orang lain dan tidak dapat kita nilai dengan uang. Mengucapkan terimakasih tidaklah perlu memandang ke siapa kita berterimakasih. Mungkin saja kita berterimakasih kepada orang lain yang mungkin status sosialnya jauh di bawah kita. Ketika anda mengisi bensin ke motor/mobil anda, mungkin petugas Pom bensin akan berterimakasih karena anda telah membeli bensin di tempat dia. Namun tidak ada salahnya anda juga mengucapkan terimakasih karena dia telah mengisikan bensin ke tangki anda. </p> <p> Tukang pengantar koran sudah bangun sebelum azan Subuh berkumandang, karena selesai Subuh dia harus mengantarkan koran ke rumah-rumah termasuk rumah anda. Tidak memandang hari terang atau hujan deras, pengantar koran tetap akan mengantarkan koran ke rumah anda. Bersyukurlah karena masih ada orang yang mau bekerja sebagai pengantar koran. Ketika anda bersiap-siap berangkat kerja anda sempat membaca berita terhangat sambil sarapan pagi. Ucapkan terimakasih yang tulus ke pengantar koran jika anda sesekali mempunyai kesempatan bertemu dengannya. </p> <p> Ucapan terimakasih anda secara tulus laksana air minum yang menyejukkan tenggorokannya di tengah padang pasir . Jika anda menerima telepon, diakhir pembicaraan ucapkan terimakasih atas kesediaan lawan bicara anda untuk menelpon anda. Ucapan terimakasih walaupun sepele, mengandung makna yang sangat besar. Seseorang yang mau mengucapkan terimakasih menunjukkan orang tersebut berbesar hati, mau memberikan penghargaan ke lawan bicaranya. Ucapkan terimakasih ke siapa saja yang membantu anda menyelesaikan suatu pekerjaan. </p> <p> Mungkin kita harus berterimakasih kepada isteri/suami dan anak-anak kita. Mungkin juga jika anda sedang pacaran, maka pacar anda yang selama ini mendukung prestasi anda wajib kita ucapkan terimakasih. Tidak usah jauh-jauh mungkin juga pembantu rumahtangga kita yang merawat rumah dan menjaga anak selama kita bekerja seharian. Jika anda karyawan kantor kita harus berterimakasih kepada tim kerja kita di kantor baik anak buah, atasan, rekan kerja atau bahkan suplier karena mereka membantu mensukseskan pekerjaan kita. </p> <p> Ucapkan terimakasih juga ke kawan atau atasan yang telah mengkritik kita. Kritikan harus kita sikapi positif, artinya orang yang mengkritik kita menginginkan kita lebih maju, mereka tulus memberikan kritik daripada sekedar pujian yang tidak ikhlas dan memabukkan. Jika anda saat ini sudah merasa berhasil, anda harus mengingat-ingat siapa saja yang pernah membantu keberhasilan anda. Mungkin pada saat anda sekolah dulu, anda banyak dibantu oleh orangtua angkat anda di kota anda belajar. </p> <p> Mungkin Ibu kos waktu itu memberikan keringanan biaya untuk anda. Rencanakan dan luangkan waktu untuk mengunjungi mereka sebagai ungkapan rasa terimakasih. Jika anda sudah berkeluarga, ajak anak dan pasangan anda mengunjungi mereka. Mereka pasti sangat bahagia melihat keberhasilan anda! </p> <p> Peribahasa China kuno mengatakan bahwa "When eating bamboo sprouts, remember the man who planted them." (Jika anda memakan rebung bamboo, janganlah lupa berterimakasihlah ke penanamnya.).Jika kita sukses janganlah lupa ke orang-orang yang telah membantu kita. Ucapan terimakasih kita pasti tidak akan pernah ditolak lawan bicara kita, bahkan dibalas dengan senyuman yang ramah. </p> <p> Mungkin Anda pernah terlintas rasa kecewa karena dilahirkan dalam keluarga yang pas-pasan atau bahkan miskin.Mengapa kawan-kawan anda dilahirkan di tengah keluarga kaya, sehingga mereka mendapat warisan yang lebih dari cukup sedangkan anda harus berjuang sendiri untuk hidup.Ucapkan terimakasih ke orangtua anda karena anda sudah dibiayai sekolah meskipun mungkin tidak sampai jenjang setinggi yang anda idam-idamkan. </p> <p> Berterimakasihlah, karena anda dirawat orangtua Anda dengan penuh kasih sayang. Bayangkan banyak anak-anak terlantar yang tidak semujur anda! Jika anda harus bergulat dengan kerasnya kehidupan maka tetaplah bersyukur ke Tuhan dan berterimakasihlah ke orangtua anda karena anda mendapat kesempatan menemukan jati diri anda untuk bertahan hidup. Perjuangan dan cucuran keringat anda jauh lebih berharga daripada warisan yang anda dapatkan secara mudah! </p> <p> Pada saat bangun pagi badan rasanya segar, sesegar udara pagi yang kita hirup. Ucapan terimakasih tentu patut kita layangkan ke Tuhan YME. KarenaNyalah kita masih diberikan kesempatan hidup. Kita masih diberikan kesempatan berkarya memberi arti bagi perjalanan nusa dan bangsa. </p> <p> Terimakasih kepada Tuhan bisa dilakukan kapan saja dan di mana saja apapun agama, suku dan bahasa Anda. </p>mustafa akbashttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11849599067252389372noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7417032229366180249.post-57771747013065521482010-04-11T09:27:00.000-07:002010-04-11T09:29:07.098-07:00MAAFFFFFFFFFFFFFF<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgqMDNsmGMAzP2OjOXkMJFKyOdw2uJp_OQAmbErvT45bxiZKpSUtaXrV5XTSLmxf8xyNxqTiVYiicAhkcvn-A-fL2etGUEaLT4Qyzg6VGQ1j7apcg1mQ0hWby7sHN0sj3-fqk_dbrTzD74/s1600/sumintar-mohon-maaf.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 198px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgqMDNsmGMAzP2OjOXkMJFKyOdw2uJp_OQAmbErvT45bxiZKpSUtaXrV5XTSLmxf8xyNxqTiVYiicAhkcvn-A-fL2etGUEaLT4Qyzg6VGQ1j7apcg1mQ0hWby7sHN0sj3-fqk_dbrTzD74/s200/sumintar-mohon-maaf.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5458917649447826930" border="0" /></a><br /><p>Apa itu makna dari sebuah kata maaf????… …..<br />Hmmmm….apa hanya sebuah ucapan yang mudah meluncur dari mulut setiap kita melakukan kesalahan? atau sebuah penyesalan yang mendalam atas kesalahan yang harus kita tunaikan dengan tulus dan ikhlas???????</p> <p>Banyak orang yang menganggap maaf2an itu sebagai suatu formalitas , jadi sekalipun orang yang belum dikenalpun meminta maaf tanpa alasan yang jelas.<span id="more-287"></span>Mengenai Minta maaf sendiri, terkadang kita sulit memaafkan seseorang terutama yang kesalahannya amat besar. Namun menurut seorang ahli, dendam itu hanya akan memperburuk keadaan fisik kita, karena ternyata kemarahan dan dendam itu turut dikonsumsi oleh tubuh. Jadi ketika kita dendam apalagi dalam jangka waktu lama, secara otomatis ini akan memperburuk kondisi kesehatan kita. Maaf berarti sebuah kata penyesalan yang diucapkan karena sebuah perbuatan yang barangkali dirasakan menyakiti seseorang.<br />Maaf mungkin saja tak bisa merubah keadaan tapi setidaknya dengan berani mengatakan maaf bagi seseorang yang sudah melakukan kesalahan itu adalah tanda sebuah penyesalan. Kata maaf tidak boleh diucapkan sembarangan…Menurutku kata maaf tuch sakral soalnya maaf itu merupakan sebuah penyesalan yang benar2 tulus dan ikhlas ketika mengucapkannya. Jadi tidak seharusnya kita bilang ” maaf ” apabila kata maaf itu tidak muncul dari hati yang terdalam untuk sebuah penyesalan yang mendalam…. Sekarang banyak sekali orang yang mengucapkan kata maaf hanya untuk mencari perhatian atau sensasi aza….Kesalahan sama yang berulang membuat kata maaf tidak ada gunanya dan hanya sebagai pembelaan diri.</p>mustafa akbashttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11849599067252389372noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7417032229366180249.post-15197046482583546402010-04-11T09:17:00.000-07:002010-04-11T09:21:37.831-07:00DOST = SAHABAT<div style="text-align: center;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjYOnAsfjiJUQlfGAH28won_1nLvD_3GTjqH1oru-3ZGKSqkXd51xobPW26eQa1dluf1_efjPKd1VrFteE6ttU3DROxN-3rMrDOhzrECoGq4Y21jOIYtJ5DXuI71G6RCn4ogcBwfyyKllU/s1600/friendmonkey6.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 238px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjYOnAsfjiJUQlfGAH28won_1nLvD_3GTjqH1oru-3ZGKSqkXd51xobPW26eQa1dluf1_efjPKd1VrFteE6ttU3DROxN-3rMrDOhzrECoGq4Y21jOIYtJ5DXuI71G6RCn4ogcBwfyyKllU/s320/friendmonkey6.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5458915500704238002" border="0" /></a><br /><span style="font-size:180%;"><span style="color: rgb(204, 0, 0); font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">DOST , ADALAH SAHBAT DALAM BAHASA INDONESIA</span></span><br /></div><br /><br /><br /><span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;color:#a60053;">Kimsesiz zamanların yalnızlığında,aydınlık diyarların masalsı görüntülerinde,küçük bir çocuk yüreğinin annesine olan sevgisi değerinde bir merhaba dostum nasılsın.<br /><br /> ♥ Dost vurulunca değil unutulunca kahrından ölürmüş.Biz dostlarımızı kır çiçekleri gibi avucumuzda değil kurşun yarası gibi yüreğimizde saklarız.<br /><br /> ♥ Gönüller birdir dünyalar ayrı olsa da. Arkadaşlıklar,sevgiler,aşklar yalan olsa da umrumda değil dünya yansada biz dostu unutmayız dost uzakta olsada.<br /><br /> ♥ Dost deniz kenarındaki taşlara benzer.Önce tek tek toplarsın sonra birer birer denize atarsın ancak bazılarına kıyamazsın.İşte sen o kıyamadıklarımdansın.<br /><br /> ♥ Zaman gelir yollarına kar yağar,etrafını hüzün bulutları sararsa,ne zaman bir dosta ihtiyaç duyarsan dost olabildiğim kadar burdayım.<br /><br /> ♥ Hep zamana yenik düştük esiri olduk anlamsız koşuşturmaların.ama bir kez adını yüreğimize kazıdığımız dostlarımızı hiçbir zaman unutmadık.<br /><br /> ♥ Sen gülerken yanındakilerde güler ama ağlarken yalnız ağlarsın onun için öyle bir ağaca yaslan ki asla yıkılmasın öyle bir dost edin ki seni asla bırakmasın.<br /><br /> ♥ Başkalarına kendinden fazla değer verme. Ya onu kaybedersin, ya da kendini mahvedersin. Terk edenden alınacak en büyük intikam , ona kupkuru, sevgisiz gözlerle bakmaktır.<br /><br /> ♥ Yaşam gülmeyi ,sevgi hak etmeyi, vefa unutmamayı, dostluk sadık kalmayı bilenler içindir.UNUTULMADIN! <br /><br /> ♥ Gülerken herkes eşlik eder, ya ağlarken. Başarılara herkes ortak olur, ya yenilgilere. Öyle bir dost edin ki; kötü gün kapını çalınca kapıya seninle beraber baksın.<br /><br /> ♥ Duygular vardır anlatılamayan, sevgiler vardır kalplere sığmayan, dostluklar vardır hiçbir şekilde yıkılmayan, bazı insanlar vardır asla unutulmayan<br /><br /> ♥ Hayata değer bir yaşam, sevmeye değer bir aşk, dostluğa değer bir arkadaşlıktan asla vazgeçme.Ne eksik ne fazlasını ara ve seni üzenle asla uğraşma !<br /><br /> ♥ Mutluluğun peşinden koşma mutluluk senin peşinden koşsun ve hayatta öyle mutlu ol ki gözlerinde akan bir damla yaş arayıp da bulamayanların sadakası olsun.<br /><br /> ♥ Belki diyorum; SEVGİ nin ne demek olduğunu biliyoruz ama GENÇLİĞİN ne demek olduğunu anladığımızda bu dünyadaki işimiz bitmiş olacak... </span>mustafa akbashttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11849599067252389372noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7417032229366180249.post-18022324952912220882010-04-11T09:12:00.000-07:002010-04-11T09:17:25.042-07:00VALENTINE DECHHHH<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh7FTsw35RNxjXx6KuMFFQARpWl_i0jhNW7TIF7JPl816lC0gU9gHF4xIesNO0Fj_hqFqpWQnG0b0WLpG10oUv7TsdtFCgZmY__C0N7kVWMjhVbiX76O44FcBN04qLs_zJY9djJPWNtBWk/s1600/225px-Victorian-valentines-cards-two-cherubs-red-hearts.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 202px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh7FTsw35RNxjXx6KuMFFQARpWl_i0jhNW7TIF7JPl816lC0gU9gHF4xIesNO0Fj_hqFqpWQnG0b0WLpG10oUv7TsdtFCgZmY__C0N7kVWMjhVbiX76O44FcBN04qLs_zJY9djJPWNtBWk/s320/225px-Victorian-valentines-cards-two-cherubs-red-hearts.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5458914199153474690" border="0" /></a><b>Hari Valentin</b> (dalam bahasa Inggris : Valentine's Day) atau lebih dikenal dengan sebutan <b>Hari Kasih Sayang</b>. Valentine diperigati tiap tanggal 14 Februari, dimana pada hari tersebut biasanya para kekasih dan mereka yang sedang jatuh cinta menyatakan cintanya dengan tatapan mata yang sangat mempesona. Ntar hasilnya sungguh luar biasa ! <img src="http://us.i1.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons7/8.gif" width="18" border="0" height="18" /><br /><br />Asal-muasal <i>Valentine</i> yang gelap sebagai sebuah hari raya Katolik Roma didiskusikan di artikel Santo Valentinus. Beberapa pembaca mungkin ingin membaca artikel Valentinius pula. Hari raya ini tidak mungkin diasosiasikan dengan cinta yang romantis sebelum akhir Abad Pertengahan ketika konsep-konsep macam ini diciptakan.<br /><a name="more"></a><br />Hari raya Valentine ini sekarang terutama diasosiasikan dengan para pencinta yang saling bertukaran notisi-notisi dalam bentuk "<b>valentines</b>". Simbol modern Valentine antara lain termasuk sebuah kartu berbentuk hati dan gambar sebuah Cupido (Inggris: cupid) bersayap. Mulai abad ke-19, tradisi penulisan notisi pernyataan cinta mengawali produksi kartu ucapan secara massal. The Greeting Card Association (Asosiasi Kartu Ucapan AS) memperkirakan bahwa di seluruh dunia sekitar satu milyar <b>kartu valentine</b> dikirimkan per tahun. Hal ini membuat hari raya ini merupakan hari raya terbesar kedua setelah <a href="http://ugiq.blogspot.com/2009/12/sms-natal-dan-sms-tahun-baru-2010.html">Natal</a> di mana kartu-kartu ucapan dikirimkan. Asosiasi yang sama ini juga memperkirakan bahwa para wanitalah yang membeli kurang lebih 85% dari semua kartu valentine.<br /><br />Di Amerika Serikat mulai pada paruh kedua abad ke-20, tradisi bertukaran kartu diperluas dan termasuk pula pemberian segala macam hadiah, biasanya oleh pria kepada wanita. Hadiah-hadiahnya biasa berupa bunga mawar dan cokelat. Mulai tahun 1980-an, industri berlian mulai mempromosikan hari Valentine sebagai sebuah kesempatan untuk memberikan perhiasan.<br /><br />Sebuah kencan pada <u>hari Valentine</u> seringkali dianggap bahwa pasangan yang sedang kencan terlibat dalam sebuah relasi serius. Sebenarnya valentine itu merupakan hari Percintaan, bukan hanya kepada Pacar ataupun kekasih, Valentine merupakan hari terbesar dalam soal Percintaan dan bukan berarti selain <a href="http://ugiq.blogspot.com/2010/01/valentines-day-hari-valentin.html">valentine</a> tidak merasakan cinta.<br /><br />Di Amerika Serikat hari raya ini lalu diasosiasikan dengan ucapan umum cinta platonik "<b>Happy Valentine's</b>", yang bisa diucapkan oleh pria kepada teman wanita mereka, ataupun, teman pria kepada teman prianya dan teman wanita kepada teman wanitanya. Sementara sebagian orang menganggap hari Valentine sebagai momen yang paling sulit, penuh tekanan sekaligus dangkal karena semakin panjang periode sebuah hubungan cinta, semakin besar tekanan yang pasangan itu alami karena menipisnya ide-ide orisinal.mustafa akbashttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11849599067252389372noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7417032229366180249.post-29278097926951375752010-04-11T09:03:00.000-07:002010-04-11T09:12:49.490-07:00For My Mother<p align="center"><span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;">MOTHER'S ARE THE SWEETEST.</span></p> <span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"> </span><p align="center"><span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;">Our mother is <span class="IL_AD" id="IL_AD7">the sweetest</span> and<br />Most delicate of all.<br />She knows more of paradise<br />Than angels can recall.</span></p> <p align="center"><span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;">She's not only beautiful<br />But passionately young,<br />Playful as a kid, yet wise<br />As one who has lived long.</span></p> <p align="center"><span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;">Her <span class="IL_AD" id="IL_AD3">love is like</span> the rush of life,<br />A bubbling, laughing spring<br />That runs through all like liquid light<br />And makes <span class="IL_AD" id="IL_AD11">the mountains</span> sing.</span></p> <p align="center"><span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;">And makes the meadows turn to flower<br />And trees to choicest fruit.<br />She is at once the field and bower<br />In which our hearts take root.</span></p> <p align="center"><span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;">She is at once the sea and shore,<br />Our freedom and our past.<br />With her we launch our daring ships<br />Yet keep the things that last.</span></p> <p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">WHAT ABOUT MOTHER IN TURKISH....!!!</span></span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(51, 51, 255);">ANNE = MOTHER</span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><br /><span style="color:#000000;"><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 0, 0);"></span><span style="font-family:Comic Sans MS;"><span style="font-family:Comic Sans MS;">Anne - Anne Nedir - Anne Hakkında<br /><br />Geleneksel olarak, yetişkin bir kadın kendi çocuğunun annesi olarak tanımlanır. Ama bu tanım kişiden kişiye değişebilir. Annesini tanımayan veya annesi tarafından terkedilmiş bir çocuk, kendisini yetiştireni annesi olarak kabul edebilir. Anne ve baba boşandıktan sonra babanın yeni eşini anne olarak kabul edebilir. Bunun gibi değişik durumlarda her birey kendi görüşleri yönünde insanları anne olarak kabul edebilir.<br /><br />Geleneksel ailede baba para kazanma, anne ise ev işleri ve çocukların bakımı sorumluluklarını üstlenirdi. Günümüzde de bu tür aileler varolsa da, artık geleneksel rollere bağlı kalmayan ebeveynler de vardır. Kadınların da iş hayatında etkin olmaya başlaması ve ekonomik özgürlüklerini kazanmaları sonucu baba ve annenin sorumlulukları paylaşılmaya başlanmıştır.<br />. Ancak babanın kararlarında pasif olarak etki edebilir. Anne babaya göre çocuklarla daha samimi bir ilişki geliştirir. Anne ve baba arasındaki kavgalarda çocuklar genellikle annelerini haklı görme eğilimindedirler.</span><ul><li><span style="font-family:Comic Sans MS;">Modern ailelerde ise anne iş hayatı nedeniyle çocukları ile geleneksel ailede olduğu kadar fazla ilgilenemeyebilir. Bazı muhafazakar insanlar, kadının çocuk sahibi olduktan sonra iş hayatını bırakması gerektiğini savunurlar.</span></li></ul><span style="font-family:Comic Sans MS;"><b>Doğum öncesi anne karnında sesleri duyar </b><br /></span><ul><li><span style="font-family:Comic Sans MS;"> Bir bebek anne karnında 5. aydan itibaren sesleri fark etmeye başlar. Özellikle müziğe, gülme seslerine, sözlere ve seslere tepki gösterir. Bu aşamadan itibaren okuma-öğrenme için süreç başlamış olur. Annenin söylediği şarkıları duyar. Anne karnında duyduğu <span id="adsclickad"><span id="adsclickad" onclick="adsClickActionR1728R('click', 'müziği', event, this);return true;" onmouseover="adsClickActionR1728R('over', 'müziği', event, this);return true;" onmouseout="adsClickActionR1728R('out', 'müziği', event, this);return true;" class="adsmartlinkR1728R">müziği</span></span> daha sonra doğduktan sonra tanır. Daha iyi işitmek için hareket etmez. Bu konuda çeşitli araştırmalar yapılmıştır. Anne karnında iken annenin yüksek sesle okuduğu metinleri bebeğin doğduktan üç gün sonra okunduğunda tanıdığı gözlenmiştir. Böylece anne karnında okuma <span id="adsclickad"><span id="adsclickad" onclick="adsClickActionR1728R('click', 'eğitimine', event, this);return true;" onmouseover="adsClickActionR1728R('over', 'eğitimine', event, this);return true;" onmouseout="adsClickActionR1728R('out', 'eğitimine', event, this);return true;" class="adsmartlinkR1728R">eğitimine</span></span> başlanmalıdır. Anneler kolay metinler seçerek bunları yüksek sesle ve kelimelerini tek tek seslendirerek okuyabilir, sevdikleri müzikleri yüksek sesle dinleyebilirler, söyleyebilirler. Bebeğin rahat duyabilmesi için verilecek seslerin çok karmaşık ve hızlı tempolu olmamasına dikkat edilmelidir.</span></li></ul></span></span></p>mustafa akbashttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11849599067252389372noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7417032229366180249.post-38529222290126057392010-04-11T08:56:00.001-07:002010-04-11T08:56:29.165-07:00Curriculum Vitae ( CV )<meta equiv="CONTENT-TYPE" content="text/html; charset=utf-8"><title></title><meta name="GENERATOR" content="OpenOffice.org 2.3 (Win32)"><style type="text/css"> <!-- @page { size: 21cm 29.7cm; margin: 2cm } TD P { margin-bottom: 0cm } P { margin-bottom: 0.21cm } --> </style> <p style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">Curriculum Vitae</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">Personal Details</p> <center> <table width="546" border="0" cellpadding="2" cellspacing="0"> <col width="13"> <col width="142"> <col width="379"> <tbody><tr> <td width="13" height="245"></td> <td width="142"> <p>Full Name
<br />Sex
<br />Place, Date of Birth
<br />Nationality
<br />Marital Status
<br />Height, Weight
<br />Health
<br />Religion
<br />Address
<br />Mobile
<br />Phone
<br />E-mail</p> </td> <td width="379"> <p>: <b>Mustafa akbas</b>
<br />: male
<br />: Izmir, september 11, 1987
<br />: Turkiye(Turkey)
<br />: single
<br />: 176 cm, 80 kg
<br />: Perfect
<br />: Moslem
<br />: jln. margonda Pesona khayangan bp5 DEPOK
<br />: <b>081574813457</b>
<br />: <b>021 - 87903802</b>
<br />: mustafa_akbas@live.com</p> </td> </tr> <tr> <td width="13" height="26"></td> <td width="142"> <p>
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<br /></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">Educational Background</p> <center> <table width="546" border="0" cellpadding="2" cellspacing="0"> <col width="13"> <col width="127"> <col width="395"> <tbody><tr> <td width="13" height="94"></td> <td width="127"> <p>1993 - 1999
<br />1999 - 2002
<br />2002 - 2005
<br />2006 - 2010</p> </td> <td width="395"> <p>: Uzun hasan Elementary School, izmir
<br />: Yamanlar junior High School , Probolinggo
<br />: Yamanlar senior High School No.1, Probolinggo
<br />: Management Department at the University of Gunadarma, Depok</p> </td> </tr> </tbody></table> </center> <p style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">Course & Education</p> <center> <table width="546" border="0" cellpadding="2" cellspacing="0"> <col width="13"> <col width="127"> <col width="395"> <tbody><tr> <td width="13"></td> <td width="127"> <p>2008 - 2009
<br />1996 - 2005
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<br /> </p> </td> <td width="395"> <p>: Computer & Internet Course at Puskom Gilland Ganesha, Jakarta
<br />: English Language Course at Yamanlar College, Izmir
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<br /></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">Qualifications</p> <center> <table width="525" border="0" cellpadding="2" cellspacing="0"> <col width="521"> <tbody><tr> <td width="521"> <ol><li><p>Accounting & Administration Skills (Journal Printing & Calculation, Ledger, Petty Cash Payroll & Calculation, Inventory Controls, Project Data Updating, Teller, Salary Caldulation). </p> </li><li><p>Taxation System. </p> </li><li><p>Computer Literate (MS Word, MS Excel, MS Power Point, MS Access, MS Outlook). </p> </li><li><p>Internet Literate. </p> </li></ol> </td> </tr> </tbody></table> </center> <p style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">Working Experience</p> <center> <table width="525" border="0" cellpadding="2" cellspacing="0"> <col width="75"> <col width="442"> <tbody><tr> <td colspan="2" width="521"> <p>Working at PT.<b>Akbaslar Tarim</b>, Izmir , Jakarta</p> </td> </tr> <tr> <td width="75"> <p>Period
<br />Purpose
<br />Position</p> </td> <td width="442"> <p>: August 2001 - April 2010
<br />: Permanently working
<br />: Management</p> </td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2" width="521"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0.5cm;">Job's Description : </p> <ul><li><p>Payroll Staff; </p> </li><li><p>Project's data updating; </p> </li><li><p>Business correspondences; </p> </li><li><p>Expatriates documentation filling & follow up; </p> </li><li><p>Translation; </p> </li><li><p>Appointment arrangement; </p> </li><li><p>Filling and data updating; </p> </li><li><p>Arranged of business trip schedule; </p> </li><li><p>Meeting budget arrangement; </p> </li><li><p>Procurement filling, inventory control, and administration asistant; </p> </li><li><p>Preparing for breakdown statement for the project, preparing intern finance circular correspondences, and preparing for the presentation materials; </p> </li><li><p>Issuing invoice & receipt for vendor and customers; </p> </li><li><p>Inventory Controller; </p> </li><li><p>Preparation of purchase requirement and purchase order; </p> </li><li><p>Invoice & payment arrangement. </p> </li></ul> </td> </tr> </tbody></table> </center> <p style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0cm;" align="CENTER">Jakarta, March 11, 2010
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<br /></p> mustafa akbashttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11849599067252389372noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7417032229366180249.post-61133843768257529852010-04-11T08:51:00.000-07:002010-04-11T08:53:18.513-07:00if clauses<h3 style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0); font-weight: bold; font-style: italic; font-family: lucida grande;"><span style="font-size:85%;">If Clause Type I</span></h3> <p style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight: bold; font-style: italic; font-family: lucida grande;"><span style="font-size:85%;">if + Simple Present, will-Future</span></p> <p style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight: bold; font-style: italic; font-family: lucida grande;"><span style="font-size:85%;">Type I indicates what will happen, provided that a certain situation is given.</span></p> <p style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0); font-weight: bold; font-style: italic; font-family: lucida grande;"><span style="font-size:85%;">Examples:</span></p> <p style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight: bold; font-style: italic; font-family: lucida grande;" class="example indent"><span style="font-size:85%;"> If you send your order by fax, we will deliver the goods immediately.<br /> If you invite me for lunch, I will help you with your presentation. </span></p> <h3 style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0); font-weight: bold; font-style: italic; font-family: lucida grande;"><span style="font-size:85%;">If Clause Type II</span></h3> <p style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight: bold; font-style: italic; font-family: lucida grande;"><span style="font-size:85%;">if + Simple Past, would + infinitive</span></p> <p style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight: bold; font-style: italic; font-family: lucida grande;"><span style="font-size:85%;">Type II indicates what could happen if a present situation were different.</span></p> <p style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight: bold; font-style: italic; font-family: lucida grande;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">Examples</span>:</span></p> <p style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight: bold; font-style: italic; font-family: lucida grande;" class="example indent"><span style="font-size:85%;"> If we had more employees, we would work more efficiently.<br /> If we delivered poor quality, we would not be the leading company in our business. </span></p> <h3 style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0); font-weight: bold; font-style: italic; font-family: lucida grande;"><span style="font-size:85%;">If Clause Type III</span></h3> <p style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight: bold; font-style: italic; font-family: lucida grande;"><span style="font-size:85%;">if + Past Perfect, would + have + past participle</span></p> <p style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight: bold; font-style: italic; font-family: lucida grande;"><span style="font-size:85%;">Type III indicates what could have happened in the past if a situation had been different then.</span></p> <p style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0); font-weight: bold; font-style: italic; font-family: lucida grande;"><span style="font-size:85%;">Examples:</span></p> <p style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight: bold; font-style: italic; font-family: lucida grande;" class="example indent"><span style="font-size:85%;"> If you had read the paper, you would have seen the advertisement.<br /> If I had taken the bus, I would have been late. </span></p>mustafa akbashttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11849599067252389372noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7417032229366180249.post-19485220365678751122010-01-11T10:21:00.000-08:002010-01-11T10:22:18.747-08:00MACETNYA JAKARTA.!!!!<h2><a href="http://jakartamacet.wordpress.com/2007/07/17/mengapa-jakarta-macet/" rel="bookmark" title="Tautan Tetap ke Mengapa Jakarta Macet?">Mengapa Jakarta Macet?</a></h2> <small></small> <p>Apa jawaban Anda?</p> <p>1. Jumlah mobil terlalu banyak<br />2. Jalanan yang kurang banyak<br />3. Situasional dan tergantung kasus</p> <p>Apabila Anda menjawab no. 1 berarti pikiran Anda senada dan seirama dengan para pejabat, khususnya di Pemkot DKI. Sebagai anti-tesis atas pemikiran tersebut, perlu diperdalam dengan mengetahui rasio jumlah mobil pribadi per kapita penduduk. Hal ini untuk menjawab apakah benar jumlah mobil di Jakarta sudah terlalu banyak? Rasio jumlah mobil per kapita di Jakarta harus dibandingkan dengan rasio yang sama di Tokyo, New York, London, Paris dan kota-kota dunia lainnya yang sepadan dari luasan wilayah dan jumlah penduduknya.</p> <p>Pemikiran no. 1 yang menyatakan bahwa jumlah mobil yang terlalu banyak sebagai penyebab utama kemacetan di Jakarta boleh dinilai sebagai kesimpulan instan bagi pengelola kota dan konsekuensi paling sederhana dan murah untuk menanganinya. Sebagai analoginya, apabila saluran kamar mandi rumah mampat sehingga air tergenang di lantai kamar mandi, dengan cara berpikir no. 1 seorang kepala rumah tangga akan melarang anggota keluarganya untuk menggunakan kamar mandi. Hasilnya secara instan tanpa mengeluarkan biaya sedikitpun masalah kamar mandi yang tergenang terselesaikan, tetapi sebagai konsekuensinya anggota keluarga tidak bisa melaksanakan rutinitas kehidupan secara normal.</p> <p>Secara nyata kebijaksanaan pemerintah yang mengemuka tentang transportasi di Jakarta sangat dilandasi dengan pemikiran tersebut. Pembatasan jumlah penumpang yang kemudian terkenal dengan sebutan 3 in 1 telah diterapkan mulai 20 April 1992 dan bahkan diperluas oleh Gubernur Sutiyoso sekitar tahun 2003.</p> <p>Selain itu kebijaksanaan pemerintah yang mengemuka hingga saat ini yang juga dilandasi dengan pemikiran tersebut dan masih menjadi wacana para</p>mustafa akbashttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11849599067252389372noreply@blogger.com0